Allah mentions in the Quran that when an evil befalls us it is due to what our own hands have earned. Also our beloved Messenger, Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said in a hadeeth (report) that the most tried are the Prophets, then those in piety after those. So therefore in our day to day life when things go wrong in our lives, how do we decide whether it is due to our sinfulness or that Allah loves us and therefore sends a trial upon us?
Praise be to Allah.
Punishments are what happen to people in
return for their evil deeds. Trials are tests which are sent to try people,
and people may be tested by good things or by bad.
Concerning punishments, Allah says
(interpretation of the meaning):
“Whatever of good reaches you, is from
Allah, but whatever of evil befalls you, is from yourself…”
[al-Nisa 4:79]
Concerning the phrase “is from yourself”,
Qatadah said: “[It means] the punishment is for you, O son of Adam, because
of your sin.” Abu Salih said that “whatever of evil befalls you, is
from yourself” means “because of your sin, and I [Allah] am the One
Who decreed it for you.” (Tafseer Ibn
Katheer).
Allah also says (interpretation of the
meaning): “And whatever of misfortune befalls you, it is because of what
your hands have earned. And He pardons much.”
[al-Shoora 42:30]
Ibn Katheer, may Allah have mercy on him,
said: “[It means] whatever misfortune happens to you, O people, is because
of evil deeds that you have already done, and ‘He pardons much’ refers to
evil deeds – He does not punish you for them but He pardons them. ‘And if
Allah were to punish men for that which they earned, he would not leave a
moving (living) creature on the surface of the earth…’ [Fatir 35:45 –
interpretation of the meaning].”
Concerning trials, the Prophet (peace and
blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “If Allah loves a people, He tries
them, and whoever has patience will have patience, and whoever is anxious
will be anxious.” (Reported by al-Imam Ahmad; Saheeh
al-Jami’, 1706).
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be
upon him) also said: “The extent of the reward will be in accordance with
the extent of the trial. If Allah loves a people, He tries them, and whoever
is content will have contentment, and whoever is angry will have anger.”
(Reported by al-Tirmidhi, 2320; Saheeh al-Jami’, 2210).
The following outlines how one may tell
whether a given event is a punishment or a trial:
If the misfortune results from doing an act
of obedience to Allah, such as being wounded in jihad, or losing money when
migrating for the sake of Allah, or losing a job because of becoming a
Muslim or increasing one’s commitment to Islam, then this is a trial.
Whoever bears it with patience will be rewarded, but if one reacts angrily
then one will earn the wrath of Allah. If the misfortune results from sin,
such as sexually-transmitted diseases or illnesses caused by drinking
alcohol and taking drugs, and so on, then this is the kind of punishment
that comes in this world (as opposed to being deferred until the Hereafter).
If the misfortune is connected neither to a good deed nor a sin – such as
other kinds of diseases and sicknesses, losing a child, or failing in
business – then it depends on the person’s situation. If he is good and
devout, it is a trial, and if he is sinful, it is a punishment.
The misfortune may be a punishment to atone
for sins, or it may be a trial aimed at raising a person’s status and
increasing his hasanat (good deeds/rewards) – this may be determined
by whether a person is obedient or disobedient. A person should not praise
himself, rather he should criticize himself for his shortcomings and strive
to attain perfection. He will benefit from misfortunes in any case, if he
has patience and hopes for reward.
And Allah knows best.